an inspiring words of wisdom to live by

Somebody once told me that "Finding the right person is
> very hard and very wrong....it is best to be the right
>person for the one you love and start from there... you'll
> always end up disappointed when you set standards and
> define a "right person" for you...and don't rush things....coz
> somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for you."
> You can never be perfect...the person you love can never > be
> perfect...but both of you can be perfect through love and
> prayers,
> and your love can be perfect through the both of you. But,
> no relationship is complete without God..... that's why we
> have marriage..it's a bond not only between you and your
> loved one....but also with God.
> Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the right >
> person....
> it's because we expected too much and we decided on our own....
> let God do the work...you may call it waiting time....but while
> you
> are waiting...pray. Let God guide you always...He knows >
> better.
> No, He knows best.
> Love is not what you think it is.... Sometimes we mistakenly
> feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we >
> are
> overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the
> meaning of true love. Some are saying that love is unselfish,
> blind, unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake
> of someone very important in our life. Others are saying
> love is immortal and can never be defined. When we
> think we're in love the first thing we almost wanted the
> whole world to know is that our love for someone very
> special can never be taken away from us. We say this
> phrase "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have
> ever received..." After a terrible fight or sometimes even a
> petty quarrel we then say "You are the biggest mistake i've >
> ever
> made for my entire life...!!!!". Now, how do you say and spell
> the
> word L-O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?.
>
> Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks >
> and
> whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love
> promises
> like "Forever, Till Death do us apart, etc." would end up >
> "Never"
> and "We should part ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My love
> for you is DEAD!!!". Many times we thought after having
> committed
> to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to > zero
>degree "S/He ain't the right one. I should probably wait for
> the right
>one to come." But the big question anyone could not answer is
> "Is
> she/he the right one?" and "When is the right time?" That made
> us
> stick to whom we are with. Will you always be waiting for the
> right
> person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the
> answer.
> Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can
> never
> find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to
> find time
> to really
> understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and
> what
> you really want in a relationship. You're right, There is no
> such thing
> as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership
> that
> goes
> along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit
> into a
> small
> sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it
> and pay
> for the
> damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the
> relationship will
> not last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the
> consequences
> and live like hell the rest of your life. It's really hard to
> say
>goodbye
> though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you
> still
> have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance
> to
> live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and
> give your
> heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have
> made
> the right decision it all by yourself. More frequently than
> not, we
> all
> act
> in a hypocritical manner for some reason.
> We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying
>as
> we try to let go. We are wrong, its just pity. We call it love
> when
> we're
> too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow
> make
> us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We
> misunderstood, its
> just that we're too much dependent to them. We call it love
> when we
>give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined
> that if
> they
> leave no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken,
> its just
> insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth
> still
> remains that
> love isn't something you can buy nor beg. It is real and
>existing. You
> can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find
> it,
> but
> it
>will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can
> make
> you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it also
> can make
> you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.
>
> "Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, it is the
> realization
> of how much you already have."