updates on jacque bermejo

friend of jacque:
"I worked with her for almost a year. I sent her a message as soon as I read about her in FB and I feel sorry for her because she's a victim of a fraud FB account. She was crying on the phone and is now so afraid to go out because of all the hate messages she's been getting the whole day. I don't know how some people can find time to create a fake account just to damage another person. Mind you, Jacque and I are not that close but I feel the need to clear her name because I can just imagine how scared she is right now. Everybody hates her for a comment she never made."



Jacque Bermejo has attempted to commit suicide (from an anonymous tip. I cannot reveal the name) she has locked herself in her room, crying and sulking and no one has been able to contact her. Not even her relatives. Please let's give her a break, let's wait until she releases a statement

UPDATE: The Brother's Official Statement
ok! it all started sa Friendster last year 2008, my sister told me that her account was hacked by someone mad at her prolly inggit or may galit... she really doesn't know or what's the reason why she has been hacked, of corse she's pissed off because this person keeps messing up her friendster profile. So, hinayaan lang ng sister ko yun, since wala nmn xang alam sa social networking or kung ano man, she's a working woman na at wala xang panahon magfriendster.

Ngayon naman this issue has been spreading about her posting such harsh words:
"buti n lg am hir in dubai maybe so many sinners bak der!so year deerving wat happend!"

Ang ate ko hindi ganyan kung magenglish, edukada sister ko at nag graduate sa UP. We came from a PROVINCE and part of a political family. Hindi basta basta si ate jack magpopost na magsisira sa family name namin. Dumaan din kami sa hirap, at for your information binagyo din ang lugar namin, TATLONG BESES. Why in the world will my ate as a filipino disgrace our family and citizen, sana po wag muna kayo manghusga.

Hintayin lang po sana ung explaination, for she doesn't have internet nor load right now, its around 3am-4am at dubai, and I have hard times contacting her myself.

Kung sino ka man gumagamit ng pangalan ng ate ko, mahahannap ka din ng mga bermejo.

UPDATE:

People, Jacque's representatives will be going to the NBI at ten this morning. Her brother will be issuing a statement in a few hours.

www.thegossiper.typepad.com

jacque bermejo's stupid shoutout in facebook

bagyong ondoy

yesterday,i was sick and spent the whole day sleeping inside my room.the only time that i get up from my bed was to eat and to pee of course.feeling ko ang sarap matulog kasi ang lakas ng ulan saka malamig,no need for aircon's or electric fan at all.
mga 1 or 2 pm nagbrown-out maybe bec. sa lakas nga ng ulan.
4 pm,i woke up bec.maingay.
paglabas ko to my surprised ang daming tao and ang gulo!yung mga gamit and clothes nila nakatambak sa sala namin and daming kids and people din(neighbors).i asked my brother what happened sabi nya sakin tingnan mo kaya sa labas hanggang bewang na yung baha.when i looked down nyek! ang taas na ng baha.ok wala lang deadma lang natulog lang ulit ako.
mga 2 am may nareceive akong text from ian,one of my friend who lives in marikina.he mentioned that he was in his aunt's house.he mentioned if i was interested of buying a stainless ref just for 250 pesos kasi binibenta nila kunin ko na lang daw sa marikina river.e di ko masyado naabsorb yung sinasabi nya i don't know if it's a joke or what,i just realized that it was a joke when he said na pati aircon nila for sale na rin for 20 pesos lang pero he was not sure kung andun pa sa river yun.what the fuck!nakuha nya pa magjoke!then i texted him and asked him kung ok ba sya and yung family nya,currently they were staying at his aunt's house in katipunan nga good thing nothing bad happens to them.
morning i received a lot of text coming from my friends and asking me how i was,maybe they forgot na 2 storey yung house namin.then i realized to text some of my friends na alam ko na binabaha din yung mga house.naawa ako dun sa isang friend ko na nagwowork sa isang restaurant.3:30 ang out nya sa work sa sta.maria bulacan sya umuuwi.nakauwi sya sa kanila ng 9am ng morning dahil walang madaanan papunta sa kanila lubog na sa baha and to top it all nilakad nya mula marilao up to bocaue exit sa nlex kahapon ganun kagrabe nilakad nya.tsk.tsk.tsk.
nagkakuryente na samin ng 11 am.dun ko na narealized yung aftermath nung typhoon ondoy.grabe!nakakakilabot yung mga pinsala na ginawa nya.all aspects of life naapektuhan,rich and poor,ordinary people and famous artist,old and young,as in lahat affected!
sa mga sakuna na ganito dito natin napapatunayan yung pagiging pilipino natin,bayanihan system kumbaga.ang daming mga taong nagdodonate,nagvovolounteer ng service nila,tumutulong sa abot ng makakaya nila.and this time issues about politics,competitions or rivalries bet.2 networks or other people,away isinantabi muna bec.what important is to help those people in need.
even some famous foreign stars share their sentiments regarding sa sakuna na ito like actress demi moore and alyssa milano and the singer josh groban.
madami ng sakuna na nalampasan ng mga pilipino.alam ko is lang ito sa mga sakuna na malalampasan natin because survivors tayong mga pilipino,lahat kakayanin natin.pero sabi nga sa news kanina it's not also about the material things that is important sa mga people na naapektuhan ng bagyo kundi yung rebuilding din nung life nila mula sa pagkakashock sa pangyayaring ito.let's all pray for those people na marescue na at makasurvive sa disaster na ito.

Please contact the following to donate a help. It could be a food, clothing, school supplies or anything that is useful on this time. Please action now!!
* Disaster Emergency Hotlines: 911-1873, 912-5296, 912-2665
* Bureau of Fire Protection (NCR): 7295166, 4106254, 4138859, 4071230
* Makati City Rescue: 186, 8958243
* Marikina City Rescue: 6462436
* Brgy San Antonio, Pasig Rescue: 6310099
* Quezon City Rescue: 161
* Disaster Management Office: 5270000 loc 134
* Philippine National Red Cross: 09209527268, 5270000, 143, 9111876
* National Disaster Coordinating Council: 912-5668. 9111406, 9122665, 9115061,
9111873, 9111906, 9120984, 9122665, 9123046, 9125296, 9125668
* Citizens Disaster Response Center: 9299820, 9299822
* PAGASA: 433-8526
* ABS-CBN Bagyong Ondoy Hotline: 4163641
* Manny Villar Hotline: 09172414864, 09276751981, 09174226800
* Dick Gordon Hotline: 09178997898, 0938444BOYS – please text FULL ADDRESS
* Meralco: 09175592824, 09209292824
* Rubberboat requests: 838-3203, 838-3354
* Dumptruck requests: 09174226800, 09276751981

breaks my heart by monica

Hey, yeah...
Hey, yeah, yeah, yeah
Hey, yeah
Oh...oh...oh...oh...
Oh, yeah
Oh...oh...

When i think of what i've done, all the pain that i've brought
baby, you should've walked out on me
And when i turned away from you, whenever there were hard times
How could you still be with me

And it was no mistake, when i hurt you that day
And went out with somebody new
But still you forgave me like it was so easy
I should've been BETTER TO you

Baby, it breaks my heart
To think that lovin me is not easy to do
And i dont mean to make it hard
Sorry for all the changes i put you through

And it's hard to believe after everything
You're still here right beside me
Wouldn't trade you for this whole world
Thankful just bein' your girl

Never gave you my heart, cause i never thought
you deserved any of me
I never told you how i felt, when deep inside i knew that
You're really what i need

And i always gave you up whenever i thought
Something better'd come along
And right when i come back, you're waiting for me
And you welcome me home

Baby, it breaks my heart
To think that lovin me's not easy to do
And i don't mean to make it hard
Sorry for all the changes i put you through

And it's hard to believe after everything
You're still here right beside me
Wouldn't trade you for this whole world
Thankful just bein' your girl

And if it takes my whole life
I'll make it up to you
'Cause i've been so cruel
And you've given your love to me in spite of everything
I-I don't deserve you

From this day forward, I'm truly yours
it took me a while to see
That we were meant for one another
Thank you for loving me

Baby, it breaks my heart
To think that lovin' me's not easy to do
And i don't mean to make it hard
Sorry for all the changes i put you through

And it's hard to believe after everything
You're still here right beside me
Wouldn't trade you for this whole world
Thankful just bein' your girl

Baby, it breaks my heart
To think that lovin' me is not so easy to do
And I don't mean to make it hard
Sorry for all the changes I put you through

And it's hard to believe after everything
You're still here right beside me
Wouldn't trade you for this whole world
Thankful just bein' your girl

Da-da-da-da-da
Da-da-da-da
Da-da-da-da-da
Oh, I...I...I...
Da-da-da
Da-da-da-da-da

rated k

A LETTER TO MANAGEMENT AND TO ALL THOSE WHO HAVE TOLD ME OF THEIR KNOWLEDGE REGARDING THE FACEBOOK ATTACKS OF RG CRUZ AGAINST KORINA SANCHEZ

From Korina Sanchez

I thought, not too long but hard, about writing this letter about someone who I supposedly work with but hardly know — someone who, should I see along our company corridors, I probably wouldn’t even recognize. While some characters would sit back, relax and ignore the nuances and irritants of daily living, some characters such as mine are the types who would see and know, by experience if I may add, that evil prospers when good men do nothing. While there is wisdom in silence, there is nobility to be found in response and courage — as foolish as some might think these to be, given specific circumstances.

Such was my thought process when I decided to write this letter. As inconsequential to my universe as someone, whose opinion I do not care about at all, is — there is something to be said here and something to consider. It is for the greater good among us who, fortunately or unfortunately, have to work with each other in ABS-CBN for, precisely, the greater good.

I received the calls and texts to me from longtime co-workers and colleagues at the station recently. They say, “Ma’am, do you know what RG Cruz has been posting on his Facebook against you? Why is the company allowing this? How could he say such things? Do you have some war going on with him?”, the person at the other end of the line sounded so urgent. This is the 3rd person to tell me of the Facebook entries by an RG Cruz within a few days about a “First Lady wannabe …who would eventually be a bad spouse…a queen in her head without a crown… ” and some. We have copies of all of the RG Cruz entries on his Facebook. Suffice it to say that the tirades against who Cruz eventually admitted was Korina Sanchez were as creative as creativity can many times be

Borne of spite and utter, utter hatred. It reminds me of the creativity of serial killers from history. Jack the Ripper for instance — who kept the English police guessing and following and analyzing each way the pattern was kept alive with each of his dead, mangled victims.

I thought hard, “RG Cruz? RG Cruz…Oh…RG Cruz, oh that RG Cruz”. He always wears a long coat much like Keanu Reeves in the movie Matrix. I once thought it to be cute and fantasized my fiancé Mar in one of those wondering, “Hmmm, maybe this outfit would do it for him and give an extra 5 percentage points in the surveys”. Alas, we always have the same reaction to every idea — it is ability, track record, integrity, honesty, diligence, intelligence, compassion and vision that should bring an aspirant to his rightful place in history — stupid. Not long coats!

Back to RG Cruz. Yes, I remember now. RG is the cute little young guy who I actually kind of like. I thought from his outfit and from watching one anchoring job he did in ANC that this guy has character. We would often walk by each other going different directions in company corridors late at night when I anchor Bandila. Many of those times I try to catch his glimpse to smile but, for some reason, he always has his head down or he would look some other direction. Half of that time maybe it was I looking down and at other directions. In short, and as astonishing as it apparently is, I don’t really know nor have interacted or worked, nor do I ever remember having had conversation with Mr. RG Cruz. And I do not know where his concentrated anger targeted towards me is coming from.

Skin off my nose. He doesn’t count. But here is where we learn some things, yes, even in instances that should seem not matter. Sad as it is, it is not surprising that, in my experience of more than 20 years of work in the company, there may always be someone like RG Cruz who will just be the way they are without rhyme or reason. There have been many batches before RG that I have seen, suffered and survived. I guess he represents his batch. My advice is, ignore. And then, when you feel it has become too much, report to our superiors. If the regulations and the law warrants, push for management action, even a sanction, even a lawsuit.

Logic dictates that, just as we are all bound by regulations and ethics regarding how we relate and treat each other within the company, these parameters encompass treatment of each other that is public, evident, attestable. Facebook, designed as it may be for “friends”, is essentially public. Slanderous comments are, arguably, considered published. “Blind item” lawsuits have been won in Philippine courts as well. As long as more than a certain number of people can identify, without a doubt, the unnamed victim of slander and character assassination, the offense is actionable.

I, by the way, do not understand why Mr. Cruz would bother to not mention my cherished name in his attacks against me when he outright named another company talent, Mr. Willie Revillame, and attacked him as well.

In the interest of sound policy covering such misdemeanors to protect its employees and talents and maintain the civility required of us all to achieve company goals — as painlessly as humanly possibly — I have inquired with management and have urged them to take a closer look at the cyberworld as public domain and which is a potent instrument for destruction and unwarranted personal aggravation of its victims, especially in the hands of co-employees.

Lastly, but most importantly. It has been almost 6 days since Sen. Mar Roxas’ abdication of position of standard bearer of the Liberal Party of the Philippines to endorse Sen. Noynoy Aquino as party candidate for the Presidency of the Republic. I’ve seen it and felt it for myself: it is the easiest thing to have an ambition, calculate and run for office. It is the most difficult to want to serve, calculate, invest and then give way. Until you see and be, it would be a task for any jaded journalist to imagine.

The overwhelming outpour of love, grief, disagreement with the decision, admiration and emulation which followed Sen. Roxas’ example has carved a niche for his good name in Philippine history books this early in his life in public service and governance. I would like to thank many of you who have called to say how they’ve admired Mar’s sacrifice. To those who challenge the integrity of Mar’s sacrifice and may dismiss it as expediency I invite you to a chat as I might enlighten you on things you might not be fully informed about or aware of. I give special thanks to Ted Failon, Julius and Tintin Babao, the people of DZMM News, Joelet Reyes, the other staff of Bandila, Ging Reyes and Charie Villa, Ms. Cory Vidanes and our President Charo S. Concio for their kind and generous words.

Many of us in the news business have often thought, felt that we are as big or powerful as those we cover. Our indifference and sarcasm say so. And too many times I have, myself, dismissed acts of greatness and sacrifice as just “one of those things”. Having taken this long a leave of absence from my years of work in broadcast for the first time and finding myself participant in something so important to this country, its people and its future I now see even more clearly how small and insignificant each of us is in the much bigger picture affecting 90 million lives. That is, until we think, act, speak and, most of all, do something to become the difference, make a difference for the good and become … bigger. Or do something or nothing to make us even smaller, more insignificant. We might as well just disappear.

So to you, RG Cruz, I say, I hope that — as your Facebook entry narrated — as you were “eating chocolate” and indulging your gastronomical cravings while events at Club Filipino on the 2nd of September 2009 were unfolding and all you could think of and delight in, as written in your Facebook, are your cruel attacks, pettiness, inanities and insensitivities to the sacrifice of others and, horror of horrors, make these public — you will, henceforth, attempt to save yourself from the very real prospect of disappearing, leaving this world without a trace, no better and even worse than when you found it.

By the way, did you know that Jack the Ripper loved chocolates, too? Look it up.

KORINA

“P.S. I have attached an interesting article written by Ms. Solita Monsod – which I highly recommend for your reading. I encourage you to pass this letter to anyone at the office or outside who may had read RG Cruz’ attacks against me and my name as a matter of defense of my character and reputation. Thank you very much.”

happy birthday marky!

It is a nice feeling to have known a gold hearted person like you in
whom I respected so much. Whose presence around has always been a
source of joy and happiness not only for me but for the whole team as well.Wishing you all the fun and excitement that only birthdays can bring, Happy Birthday!
and also congratulations for being the new coach of shift clymene.God bless and take care.

thank you for this week...

i had a great week.
Monday,spent the whole time sleeping.to revive all the energy that i spent from last week and also as one way of taking care of myself.
Tuesday,spent time with paricce.we enjoyed shopping for her clothes and shoes.we even saw her godfather who is the part owner of BUCKCAROOS a newly opened restaurant at sm fairview(and they also had a branch in ortigas) we ate there for free...nice food and ambiance.i really like the uniform of the staffs which is cowboy style.yeehah!!!
and also i spent 500 pesos for paricce rides in storyland it was one to sawa rides for her,after she finished all the rides i didn't realize that i should bought the ride all you can ticket instead to save money.haist,anyways what matters to me is that i spent one quality day for my daughter and i made her happy for that day.
Wednesday,god's blessing first day of work i got 3 sales and ate marilyn got 5.we were the top team of the day!
Thursday,i only had 1 sale.special thanks to ate Marilyn's callback,if not for her i wouldn't have a sale.
Friday,i got 2 sale.haist,it was so difficult for this day for me.i had a hard time pitching and god bless me for what i did.(huh!what's thah?secret!slamming!!!!hahahaha.)
we bought donuts courtesy of ate marilyn.again he was fooled by katch,hihihi.
Saturday,got 3 sale.thank you god.
Sunday,got 2 sales,again thanks to ate marilyn.after work we ate our launch in glorietta with marky,nyles,jannete,cham2x,ate marilyn and tl addie.i heard the good and badbews as well but as we all know that nothing is permanent in ths world but changes.

well,to wrap it up.thank you lord for the everyday guidance.ever since i started calling i never failed to have commissions every week.thank you very much for that!
thank you to ate marilyn for the help and guidance.
congratulations to marky and good luck to tl addie.
again thank you god for all the wonderful changes that your doing specially to my life.

happy birthday jhane!

happy birthday!wish you all the best things in this world.grl,bata ka pa marami ka pang mapagdadaan basta lagi ko saung sinasabi na wag mong iintindihin sasabihin ng iba sau,kung credible yung tao pde pa pero kung kakadiri nman yung pagkatao at nagma...malinis sa buhay,grl magtanong ka na lang sa beggar baka mas totoo pa sila kesa dun sa tao na yun.haist,naalala ko na nman...
nweiz,dito lang ako sau parati,iintindi at papatulan mga kabaliwan mo.hehehe.mommy mo pa rin ako at kung si katch lang iyong-iyo na.hehehe.love you jhane.happy birthday!

paricce report card

so proud of you paricce.keep it up!

paricce new pics

letting go

Letting go into who you really are is the greatest gift you can give the world. As you let go of problems, judgments, resentments, and most importan

antly, all the beliefs and messages that are not your highest truth, you become free to express your authentic self with others and share your true gifts with the world.

Imagine a world where all the people have let go of their old baggage - past conditioning, limiting programming, judgments and resentments - and they are light, loving, accepting and joyful. Imagine the connection between people and the synergy within groups, communities and nations.

Letting go involves releasing the past and starting fresh in the present moment. It means trusting that you are more than your roles, beliefs and stories. Many are reluctant to let go because they fear they will have nothing left. They cling to problems, unhealthy situations, and outworn roles and relationships because it feels safe in its familiarity. They don’t know who they are underneath. They haven’t experienced their true, authentic Self bursting with energy, waiting to express its true nature in the world.

So how does one touch into this state of freedom where they can be themselves, uninhibited, light and joyful? By letting go, bit by bit. By first noticing where they hold on, where they resist, and where they struggle, and then slowly, gently, releasing the hold and embracing what’s underneath.

Practice Letting Go
Get into the habit of letting go of stress, tension, problems, the past, resentments, false beliefs and anything that limits you from feeling free in life. Spend at least 5 minutes each day at the beginning, middle or end of your day with your eyes closed, centered within, doing the following letting go practices.

♦ Focus on simply letting go of your breath. Let your breath fill your lungs naturally and then focus on the breath leaving your lungs. Notice the release, feel the relief. Notice how naturally your lungs refill. Letting go of your breath doesn’t mean you stop breathing, it allows life to continue flowing.

♦ Let go of stress and tension. Notice any tension in your body - where are you holding? Simply let go of holding and watch the tension release. Scan your whole body to find another place where you are holding and continue letting go until your whole body is relaxed.

♦ Let go of thinking. Listen to your thoughts and then let them go. Watch as they arise, let them pass through, and then tune into the spaciousness that surrounds them and the stillness behind them.

♦ Let go of resentments. Carrying resentments around is like carrying someone else’s baggage on your back. If there’s nothing useful for you in the luggage, why carry it around? Notice any judgments or resentments you have towards yourself or others and imagine placing them on the ground. Feel the relief from doing this. Now imagine walking away into freedom.

♦ Let go of old stories. What stories do you keep retelling that locks you into repeating them in your life? Be willing to explore the depth and expansiveness of who you are underneath past roles and stories. Imagine taking them off like a piece of clothing or stepping out and away from them like leaving a room. Tune into who you are without your stories.

♦ Let go of limiting beliefs. What beliefs hold you back from expressing yourself and living your life freely? Bring them to your awareness so you can let them go. Dig deep into the core beliefs such as not being good enough, not having love, not being big enough and so on. Look at these beliefs and know they are just untrue messages in your space. Be willing to release them and discover your truth underneath.

creating-sunlightAs you practice letting go your body will be more energized, your mind more peaceful and your soul free to shine through and light your way in life.

Are you ready to let go?

how to be happy?

Many people expect someone else to make them happy or blame others for ruining their happiness. And many wait until they have the perfect mate, ideal job, or a certain amount of money in the bank before they allow for the experience of happiness.

Happiness doesn’t come from anything external; it’s an inside job. Healthy relationships, fulfilling work and constant cash flow can add to one’s happiness, but they don’t cause it; it’s the other way around. Being happy creates a positive attitude which leads to creating and attracting positive experiences in life. Why would a truly happy person attract a negative partner, work in an unfulfilling job or sabotage their finances?

Choosing to be happy is a committed decision. It means letting go of negativity, limiting beliefs, and victimhood mentality, and instead choosing to bring acceptance and joy to every encounter and circumstance.
How to be Happy in Life

Choose to be happy. Try the following suggestions as a way to cultivate inner happiness, which will ripple into the rest of your life.

* Let go of unrealistic expectations and judgments. Expecting yourself, others or situations to fit your ideal is asking for disappointment. And judging yourself or others sucks the happiness right out of life. Practice self-acceptance along with accepting others and circumstances as they are. This will immediately bring relief and allow inner happiness to bubble forth.
* Don’t take things personally. It’s easy to let others bring you down when you take what they say or do personally. Remember that each person has their own story to write and drama to act out, which has more to do with them than anything else.
* Focus on the positive. Every situation has its pros and cons. Focusing on the negative triggers frustration, anger, hopelessness and, over time, even depression. Release negativity, stop worrying, and choose to focus on what’s going well, what’s working, and what you enjoy about another person or situation. This will magnify the positive and attract more of it.
* Let go of victimhood and own your power. Feeling done-by, done-to or just plain done is a form of victimhood where a person gives their power away to others and circumstances. Instead, focus on the lessons and gifts arising from difficult situations and own your power to create the life you want.
* Set your intention to be happy. Setting a goal, deciding on a path and taking action brings a person much closer to what they desire. The same goes for happiness; choosing to be happy, deciding what steps to take, and following through with action will lead to it.

What will you do today, tomorrow and for the rest of your life to be happy? As you develop inner happiness, it will be easier to find external ways to be even happier.

Read more: http://personaldevelopment.suite101.com/article.cfm/how_to_be_happy#ixzz0R74WUd15

paricce and me

my phi family at tboy marilao

pc of junk by hannah

a foggy afternoon,
rain dropping like a scream.
As my heart beating in pain.
My memory shouting for your name.

As i cherished the days we were together,
I could not help but gave thanks to the Giver.
For once He had given me a chance.
To love;to love you at once.

Like leaves of the tree in Autumn
We fly away from each other arms.
My only prayer to the creator
He will guide and bless you well.

May happiness grant unto you always,
May our memories be the strength,
For a new story we will be creating,
As my journey with you is about to end.

Let me take care of you somewhere else,
In a place where you will be mine alone,
Here from the deep of my being.
Deep inside I'll keep you forever.
this is my silent goodbye..

linggo ng wika pics of paricce

happy birthday pam!!!

you are the smartest person i ever known...
whoever i am now i owe it all to you.you inspire me to do the things that i never do,you were my strength when i was down and you were the only person who believes in my capabilities as a person.
paricce and i loves you so much and whatever happens we will always be here for you.
we love you and happy birthday.